Mr. Narssistic Personality Disorder

Being that I don’t get out often I decided to sign up for a free dating website. No sooner had I finished my profile, I got a message from Mr. Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Mr. NPD. He stated he liked my profile and was working on a post graduate degree as well in engineering. Sounded impressive. We began emailing back and forth. He said he was from Iran. Yes that was the first warning signal, I immediately thought of several friends who had dated Middle Eastern men before and found them to be either controlling and demanding or sex maniacs who just wanted to play with American women until the virgin wife came along. I am not one who is prejudiced so I decided to keep an open mind. (Foolish girl!) He immediately was sending me messages stating things like I would be lucky if he ever kissed me, and how lucky I was he was interested in me. I immediately set out to destroy this ego as I can’t stand egotistical men, they aggravate the hell out of me and they are lucky to have ME! It came to the night of our date and he had hurt his eye and was at home and couldn’t make it. He then began messaging me asking me a question like how good of a kisser was I and if I was a real blonde. I decided play time was over and ignored his messages. I then went on a few dates with other gentlemen (Mr. Bollywood). Mr. NPD then messaged me again sending a very nice and polite message this time. After no luck with some other dates I decided to give it a try. We went out on our first date and the minute I met him I could not stop staring. He was dangerously good looking. We had coffee, went to a movie, and then had sushi and wine back at his place. He said he liked me so much and wanted to see me more. We began dating, going to dinner, watching movies at home, playing poker with his friends. The more comfortable he got the worse the ego got. I was constantly getting messages from him saying things like ‘Admit you’ve been thinking about me all day’ to which I of course replied ‘No... But the fact that you sent me this message lets me know YOU were thinking of me all day’ to which he replied ‘You wish’. It was playful; however after a while the true narcissistic ego side of him came out. He did not like my sassy replies and the teasing turned to insults. He complained that I had a self confidence issue (yes… I know… me have a self confidence issue.. I almost choked on my salad when I read that text. ) and again this truly proved how fragile his own ego was. Finally the last message he sent me was ‘I will call you if I feel like seeing you’. He then called me the next day and I ignored all his calls and texts.


Who needs a narssistic idiot? This man clearly did not understand that I had a brain and self esteem. I think in the dating world there are many women who will put up with this kind of nonsense, however I am NOT that woman. I need a man who is a real man, not a man who hides behind an overinflated ego to try to camoflage his male inadequacies. We can only hope Mr. NPD learned a lesson from this experience. Lesson number 1 for men in the dating world… don’t play games with girls who know how to play them better!