Mr Hot/Col

Lets face it.. we’re all confused out there, and that includes men. Two years ago I was at a dear friend’s birthday party when I met a very debonair gentleman. I was eating and he approached me with a video camara asking with a deep French accent ‘Oooo is dis beauuutiful woman?’ to which I quickly tried to pull myself together from the chicken leg and stammer out my name. He was tall dark and handsome, literally. Dressed in an expensive suit he asked me to dance. We danced all night. He then gave me his phone number. I called in a couple days (this is always a wise move ladies, you don’t want to seem to desperate!) We began dating and dated over the period of 3 months. I fell for him… hard. My birthday arrived and he spent it making my best friend as comfortable as he could and bought me an expensive heart shaped watch. I was hooked! A month later he stopped calling. When I asked him if we were breaking up the reply was ‘we were never together, we were just good friends’ I was devastated. I spent the next just trying to get over the damage. I began a long distance relationship with another man and just as soon as it was getting happy here comes Mr Hot/Cold. I wonder if he was thinking ‘Wow.. she might actually be getting over this.. let me mess her up again!’ We began a friendship again, me and the other guy didn’t work out so Mr Hot/Cold and I began dating again. This time he was recognizing the relationship. He made a fatal mistake though, he lied. He lied that a close friend of mine was talking behind my back in order to pull me away from her as she had just discovered the real reason of the previous breakup. He had another girlfriend in Africa he was planning to bring to the states and marry. When it looked like she might come, he dumped me. When he realized she wasn’t, he wanted me back to make it work. I have never been, nor will I ever be a second place girl. So I did the most evil spiteful thing I could think of. I started dating someone else without telling him, ignored his phone calls, and showed up to a party he would be attending with my new beau. The score was even, I had hurt him as bad as he hurt me. Not my most shinning moment but the look on his face was priceless!