Bad boys, bad boys, whatcha gonna do.. whatcha gonna do when we're coming for you!

Bad boys.. what is it about these deficient men that turn us on so much? It’s a classic and typical story you find with women in high school, women in college, women in the working world, and single women everywhere. A nice guy comes to take you out for dinner and a movie. He has impeccable manors, dressed nice, good job, can commit and will give us the world on a silver platter. By the end of the night you are thinking about nothing else but how to let this man down easy. However, if a man comes knocking, who is cocky, has good manners, but is a player or dangerous we can almost fall easily or instantly for him.


A good friend of mine readily and instantly will admit to the fact that she only falls for bad boys. She once had a man who was the owner of a jewelry store, gave her everything she wanted, but in the end she broke his heart and gave hers to a bad boy who was younger and much more dangerous only to have him break hers. Another friend of mine admits ‘We only fall for the guys that are hard to catch, the ones that give us their attention readily we don’t want’. This is true, and I believe it has to do with the fact that we as women need excitement. We need an element of danger, to know we are taking a risk. So does that make us adrenaline love junkies? I can readily admit the men I have fallen the hardest for have been bad boys. I must admit my own deficiency in the dating world; I am an adrenaline love junkie. The men that excite me the most are the bad boys. I am fascinated by them, especially the ones that combine manors with badness. Do we as women need drama in our relationships? I feel we do, just as much as men do. We always condemn men for going after the ‘crazy’ girl, but we must also admit that we as women like to go after the ‘bad’ boy.